It’s June 13th 2014, Friday morning 9:10 AM,
Delhi just began its day after an overnight rain that silenced the heat wave of
the past two weeks.
It’s still drizzling and I hear an emergency
siren of a vehicle and then take a glance at it, turns out to be a Fire service
vehicle. My first reaction to self, how an earth could something go wrong on
such a pleasant morning. But something did go wrong and the Delhi fire service
vehicle was in a hurry. I was behind the vehicle, which was struggling to find
its way and the address of the place of mishap. They don’t have a GPS unlike
the developed countries, I told to myself and even if they did have one, it
would not have helped much, courtesy the chaotic lanes running in all
directions.
It moves further ahead and finds itself stuck on the road
because someone has left his / her car parked in middle of the road. It’s a
narrow two-way lane and one way was already blocked with the fire service
vehicle moving in the opposite direction. I was right behind the vehicle
cribbing about the way people misuse the roads and pavements (which are hard to
distinguish). It’s a residential area and the owner of the car might not even
be aware that the car has created a traffic jam. It’s a common thing that I get
to see every morning and evening in old rajender nagar, New Delhi, but today
was something different. There is a fire mishap, which needs urgent
attention, and even seconds were important to save the lives of people, the
place and stop the fire from spreading further.
I was not surprised that the fire service employees did not call
any authority to complain and penalize the car owner, because, firstly they
come across so many such illegitimately parked vehicles on a daily basis and
secondly it was important for them to address the priority at hand. But still I
felt they should have forwarded the complaint to someone to tow the vehicle
away. The driver of the fire service Dept. deftly moved past the car but it
took more than 10 minutes while a long trail of vehicles including an ambulance
waited for its way. I only wished that the ambulance was not addressing any one
else and was part of the fire services crew. The fire services would have
reached 10 min ahead if not for the Jam and I only prayed that the delay did
not lead to any casualty, which could have been avoided.
Sadly even after the entire episode, the driver of the car was not seen and perhaps didn’t even know that all this happened by a careless action of his / her.
We all care for our dear ones. How would we respond when our own house is burning in front of our eyes and our kith and kin caught in the fire while the fire extinguisher / ambulance arrives late because a literate but uneducated and irresponsible fellow citizen blocked the way of the fire service vehicle.
Should we feel outraged? I would say No; we don’t have the right
to be outraged, because we are part of this problem.
These acts of audacity happen because we allow them to happen.
Many of us blame the Government, authorities for any mishap /
accidents because its easy to blame, because, we don’t want to think about the problem
and its causes. All we would want to do is give our opinion on the subject,
generic statements like “Government should ensure that there is a
proper system in place”.
Would such so called system run independently without support
from Citizenry? I highly doubt that.
Sure, Government is the one which makes law, demands tax to
provide services back but does that mean we all should wait till the Government
arrives while a family burns or some one dies because of the sheer negligence
of someone who does not have the brains to think of the implications of his /
her actions.
How many of us really work towards being better citizens and
towards a better society. Do we apply our civic sense in each and every step of
our daily life? If we question ourselves honestly, the answer will be a big NO.
Assuming we are citizens with civic sense and then what? What next?
Do we ever question someone who is not applying his / her civic
sense. Why shouldn’t we stop someone from violating a rule / law. ? Can we
not confront someone by standing up for the right thing?
Two weeks ago, a lady conductor was stripped on the bus by a
miscreant near Mumbai. Her only mistake was to ask the passenger to stop
abusing an elderly bus driver. The miscreant kicks her, drags her outside the
bus, and strips her while everyone watches a Grand Indian Tamasha. Should the
people in the bus wait for the Police to come and protect the woman? Wasn’t
it necessary for people to stand up and ask the miscreant to not abuse the
driver in the first place? None could stop this. But when things blew out of
proportion and the lady was man handled, shouldn’t our modesty be
outraged and not just the conductor’s, Should
we not take things (doesn’t mean Law) into our hands when something goes wrong
in our presence? Why not prevent a mishap instead of waiting for the
authorities to cure the same. ?
These mistakes of our fellow citizens go unnoticed and
unpunished everyday in every city / town of our country. We would not even
bother to suggest someone who is blocking the road, not to do so. We care for
nothing when someone barges into an already established queue. We feel annoyed,
disgusted and perhaps frustrated with our fellow citizen’s attitude but we
would not go and explain the inconvenience being caused. We would not, because
we are afraid to speak up The Right Thing, we are afraid to
be tagged as A Good Samaritan, A Sathyawadi, we are afraid
to be tagged as a Gandhi, We are scared to be dubbed as
someone who does Social Service Voluntarily.
The highlighted words are the awards that a citizen receives,
perhaps as taunts from friends / family/ fellow citizens when he / she is being
civic or teaches some one to be civic.
As a matter of fact we run away from the good things because
they stand out. They are exceptional. We don’t want to be looked upon as an
exception in a society which has become used to bullying, abuse and hooliganism
and if I can put it this way, all we want is to be a Normal /
Average Indian, who doesn’t question till it’s his / her problem and
sometimes not even do so instead keep sulking and cribbing about the
society.
Most of us might feel that we are good and law abiding citizens
but what we forget is that abiding law is as important as stopping someone from
violating the law. We have to begin to question today for a better society and
a better tomorrow because no house should burn and none should die
because he / she could not reach the hospital on time courtesy a fellow citizen lacked
civic sense.